BELIEFS I believe in soul mates and I believe in reasons. Reasons for the good and the bad. I believe that the bad is actually a lesson to be learned and that the definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over and expect a different result. I believe it is wrong to spend one minute longer with a mate/companion than one should, because every minute spent with someone you know you aren't meant to be with, is a minute that you have stolen from their lives, and they from yours. To illustrate that last point...try this exercise: I am 40 years old I expect to live to be 70 I won't be able to be as active as I would like around 60 This means I have 20 years of good quality living 20 x 365 = 7,300 days left to live Every day that I waste, is one day I can never get back...that is gone forever ...
Life will break you...and when it does...you will come back stronger where you were broken...and wiser for the experience. | "Hemingway"